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Saturday Bonus: Blame Is the Fastest Way to Stay Broke
A loser’s mindset is blaming everything on manipulation.
Listen.
A loser’s mindset is blaming everything on manipulation.
Every wick.
Every stop-out.
Every loss.
“It was market makers.”
“It was whales.”
“It was some guy I followed on Threads… wink.”
Everyone does this at first.
I did too.
You probably did.
So let me be clear, this isn’t an insult.
It’s a phase.
But most people never grow out of it.
Blame Feels Good. Accountability Makes You Rich.
Blame is comforting.
It protects your ego.
It tells you the loss wasn’t your fault.
It lets you avoid the one thing that actually matters:
Looking in the mirror.
Maturity in trading starts the moment you ask a different question.
Not
“Who screwed me?”
But
“What did I do wrong?”
That’s the pivot point.
That’s where tourists separate from professionals.
Let’s Talk About “Manipulation”
Be honest with yourself.
Was it really market makers hunting your 100x long on a weekend?
Or was it:
A terrible entry
No invalidation level
No stop logic
Position size way too big
Trading illiquid hours
Trading emotions instead of structure
The market doesn’t know who you are.
It doesn’t see your leverage.
It doesn’t care that this was “your last chance.”
Price moves where liquidity is.
Full stop.
If your position was vulnerable,
it was always going to get punished.
That’s not manipulation.
That’s math.
The Market Owes You Nothing
Read this slowly.
The market does not care about:
Your position size
Your PnL
Your feelings
Your rent
Your conviction
Your trauma from 2022
Price is not moral.
It’s not fair.
It’s not out to get you.
It simply moves to where the most money changes hands.
Once you truly accept that, something powerful happens:
You stop being emotional.
You stop being reactive.
You stop taking losses personally.
And that’s when your trading finally improves.
Every Loss Is a Data Point Or a Lie You Tell Yourself
Here’s the brutal truth:
If you blame manipulation,
you learn nothing.
If you blame influencers,
you outsource responsibility.
If you blame “bad luck,”
you guarantee the same mistake repeats.
But if you take accountability?
Every loss becomes a lesson.
Wrong timeframe? Fix it.
Wrong size? Adjust it.
No plan? Build one.
Entered late? Track it.
Ignored structure? Mark it.
Results change fast when learning replaces blame.
I’ve watched it happen hundreds of times inside my group.
The moment someone stops complaining
and starts journaling…
Their win rate improves.
Their sizing stabilizes.
Their emotions calm down.
Not because the market changed.
Because they did.
This Is Why Most People Never Make It
Not because they’re dumb.
Not because crypto is rigged.
Not because they lack information.
But because they refuse to take ownership.
Ownership is uncomfortable.
It strips excuses away.
It forces you to admit you weren’t as good as you thought.
But it’s also the gateway to freedom.
Every trader who’s made serious money
went through the same transition:
From victim
to student
to operator.
Most people stay stuck at step one.
You Don’t Need to Be Perfect, You Need to Be Honest
I’m not asking you to never lose.
Losses are part of the game.
I’m asking you to stop lying to yourself about why you lose.
Because once you do, everything changes:
You size smaller
You plan entries
You respect invalidation
You stop gambling
You stop revenge trading
You stop blaming ghosts
And slowly, quietly, consistently…
You start winning.
Not because you cracked some secret indicator.
But because you stopped sabotaging yourself.
This Cycle Will Expose You
Bull markets don’t hide bad habits.
They amplify them.
If you’re blaming manipulation now,
you’ll blow up even harder when volatility expands.
If you take accountability now,
this cycle can be the one that changes your life.
That choice is entirely on you.
If you want structure instead of excuses,
systems instead of vibes,
and accountability instead of cope…
That’s why I built this ecosystem.
Crypto Exit Manual (CEM) - How to enter, manage, and exit like a pro
Private Discord -we review trades, not complain about them
Everything bundled.
Built for traders who are done blaming
and ready to level up.
Blame keeps you comfortable.
Accountability makes you dangerous.
Choose wisely.
Victor